Russian Mail Brides

Russian Mail Brides
Russian Mail-Order Bride

Foreign Dating Questions

Are there really Russian mail-order brides?

Has anyone ever known someone who did this? It seems so bizarre…

Yes there are many sites that “advertise”brides from all over.
Russia.I am sure most of them are con jobs just trying to get some lonely man to send them gifts and money.I dont think its all that easy to get citizenship for them.
I would bet that for everyone that is actually looking for a husband there are 100 looking for a “john”
RailRoad Dave is right great film and very interesting .
A must watch if anyone is thinking about a mail order bride.

side bar:

Back in the days of the American old west there were a lot of legitimate women looking for a husband (mail order brides)
When gold was discovered in California, an influx of men stampeded to find their riches. Unfortunately, not many women accompanied them.
San Francisco even had a newspaper titled Matrimonial News, dedicated to promoting honorable matrimonial engagements and true conjugal facilities” for these men who came west.

An editorial in Alta California another newspaper said, “We want an emigration of respectable females to California; of rosy-cheeked ‘down east’ Yankee girls–of stout ‘hoosier’ and ‘badger’ lasses, who shall be wives to our farmers and mechanics, and mothers to a generation of ‘Yankee Californians.’ ”
Here’s one advertisement for a wife::
“Wanted: A girl who will love, honest, true not sour; a nice little cooing dove and willing to work in flour:”. Please respond to . . .” and the name and post office followed.

In the 1860s, Asa Mercer went to the “Atlantic states” to bring boatloads of women to the Pacific Northwest.
Some of the women who came were sadly disappointed, but many found a good life in the west. They became the matriarchs of strong families who built the country, leaving a legacy of adventure, strength, and often a strong faith.
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Ukrainian and Russian Mail Order Brides – Are You Sure Her Heart is Yours?

Are you corresponding with a Russian or Ukrainian mail order bride? Do you wonder if she is talking with other guys or if she is seeing other guys in her hometown while she is writing to you? Even thought this is going to upset you and maybe break your heart a little bit, the truth is that she is probably writing to many men and even thinking seriously about seeing a couple of them while she is writing to you at the same time.

You see, the sad fact is that there are many men who write letters to these women and then suddenly stop writing for apparently no reason. There are guys that get an ego boost from writing to a beautiful woman from Russia or Ukraine and once their ego is satisfied they either tell themselves that she isn’t for real or they lose interest in one particular girl and move on to the next sexy young thing that catches their eye.

As a result, many Russian and Ukrainian mail order brides are a bit skeptical yet cautiously optimistic when a man begins to write to them. Your girl may really feel something for you yet in the back of her mind she won’t commit to you until she knows for sure that you are sincere and this doesn’t come from writing beautiful letters or sending her gifts or flowers…although this is a good start.

The other sad fact is that while you are writing to her not only are there other guys perhaps in your own country writing to her…and guys from all over the world writing to her if she is particularly attractive, there are guys in her own hometown that are vying for her attention and affection. You have to admit that a local guy does have a hand up over you with your Ukrainian or Russian mail order bride.

Letters, phone calls, gifts, flowers and the like are great but a local guy definitely has the upper hand in winning her heart if he has the honest intention of doing so. This might drive you a little crazy and make you want to just give up and quit writing to her but I would caution against this. You do have a lot to offer a Russian or Ukrainian mail order bride that a guy from her own hometown doesn’t have. You have a lot going for you and it’s just a matter of busting through the bs and actually get about the business of winning her heart.

It might seem like an overwhelming task given that you are probably several thousand miles away but the truth is that if you know what you’re doing you can be her knight in shining armor and have her devoted to you and you alone quite easily. Once you understand what makes these women tick and see how different they are than the women in your own country you are well prepared to win her heart and hand for all time and have for yourself a woman that will devote her life to you and you alone.